Welcome to the Phelly BlogAs you know, my mission is to help children feel better about themselves and their journey through childhood. At the same time, I want to help parents and kids connect so that the child feels supported and parents feel they know what is going on. In this, the Phelly blog, we share thoughts and resources for parents and kids designed at helping kids to just be kids. Happy reading!
We become what works for us…04/06/18
Towards or Away from?14/05/18
A lot of successful individuals, athletes and business people alike often discuss how they saw in their minds eye what they were going to achieve long before they achieved it. This is because they are motivated by moving towards a goal “I will be the next President”. Some, admittedly, are motivated by moving away from a goal “I will never be poor again”. However, what we have found is that when you move away from a goal, once you achieve that goal, you stop.
Losing weight (goal) because I no longer want to be fat (moving away) means that as soon as you lose some weight, you’ve achieved your goal and can stop