Pheletant the Elephant
Ask people what they want and they will often tell you what they don’t want.
  • What do you want? I don’t want to be fat.
  • What do you want? I want to lose 5kg
  • What do you want? I want to stop smoking
These answers focus on the negative, what is not wanted.   Instead of focusing on what we want to achieve, we’re focusing on what we want to put behind us. But by continuing to focus on it, we keep it in front of us.   Having a goal in your mind, of what you DON’T want i.e. “don’t eat the chocolate”; means that in order for your brain to remind you

From Me

I just really want to help children feel better about themselves and their lives in their journey through childhood.